It is no use indulging in arguments and disputations; he who
clamours aloud has not grasped the truth, believe Me. Silence is the
only language of the realised. Practise moderation in speech. That
will help you in many ways. It will develop love, for most
misunderstandings and factions arise out of carelessly spoken
words. When the foot slips, the wound can be healed; but when the
tongue slips, the wound it causes in the heart of another will fester
for life. The tongue is liable to four big errors; uttering falsehood,
scandalising, finding fault with others and excessive articulation.
These have to be avoided if there has to be peace for the
individual as well as for society.
- Divine Discourse, 12 July 1958.