Start by controlling the vagaries of the mind, the pulls of the ego, and the attractions of sense-attachment. Be helpful to others, then your conscience itself will appreciate you, and keep you happy and content, though others may or may not thank you. Life is a steady march towards the goal. Be patient, humble, do not rush to conclusions about others and their motives.

- Sathya Sai Speaks,  Vol 5, Ch 28, Apr 6, 1965. 

"Treat both praise and blame with indifference." - Baba