It
is not good to spend time in conversations which are fault finding and
abusive in nature. These are natural and common with many
people. Knowing this, those who aspire to become true devotees
should search only for bases on which they should build their joy.
All the available time should be used for holy purposes, it should not
be wasted. You have nothing to do with the good and the bad in
the others. Instead of wasting the time, it should be utilized
to discard the bad and develop the good in you.
-Divine Discourse,
Sandeha Nivarini.