During the little time available, if you don't
think of some good subject, but merely recollect the ignorant prattle
of others, it is as if you too joined in the blame game. This is
harmful to a devotee. One word following another produces anger
and pain. The path of devotion is designed for suppressing, not
developing these qualities. The talk of the fault finders is
like the sound of bronze. Cheap metals make more sound.
Gold which does not make sound is very valuable. So too, true
devotees will remain mute, following the path of silence. Their
tongue will be fully engaged in the repetition of the essential
greatness of the Lord's Name. It is best that they have no respite for
any other word. So do not permit the words of the bronze-voiced
persons to enter your ears, instead fill them with the Name of the
Lord.
-Divine Discourse,
Sandeha Nivarini.