Do not cultivate excessive desires. It is natural for people to have some desires, but one has to enquire which one of these desires is good and which one causes harm. Unfortunately, this sense of discrimination is lost in present times. All these desires, which are the result of Kama, Krodha, Lobha, Moha, Mada and Matsarya (Desire, Anger, Greed, Delusion, Pride and Envy) have their origin in the mind. When you marry a girl, you develop love for her in the beginning. After sometime, if for any reason, she goes against your wishes, you develop hatred for her. Your anger and hatred will ultimately land you in difficulties. If you reduce your desires and expectations, you will be able to lead a happy married life. "Less Luggage, More Comfort" makes travel a pleasure.  Hence, reduce the luggage of your desires. 

- Divine Discourse, 22nd Nov 2009.

You may not always oblige, but you can always speak obligingly.  - Baba