Be careful not to discuss the pros and cons of your spiritual practices with all and sundry. If the people consulted are treading another path, they will decry your practice of repetition of the Name and meditation, and treat them with scant respect. They will look down upon your practices as if they were elementary and as if you were but a beginner in school. As a result, you will start doubting the efficacy of your chosen path! You will find doubts where earlier you had joy, disgust where earlier you had love. Therefore, reflect within yourself or approach those who have tasted the nectar of that same Name. Do not argue about these things with everyone you meet. The time spent in these disputations is better used in the cultivation of joy through the repeated contemplation of the Name and meditation on the Form of the Lord.

– Dhyana Vahini, Chap 7: "Remember God and Meditate"

God is the embodiment of love. If you want God, you should have total love for God. – Baba